posted by Emsie
02 July 2024
Cancer and stoma
Last reply:
08 July 2024 14:05
Hi, 48 yr old female diagnosed with stage 4 bowel and liver cancer in march 2023, had emergency colostomy in aug 2023 and I am still struggling with having the stoma. i just cant accept it, it has changed so many aspects of my life, and I have developed a hernia as a result. I know I shouldnt be focusing on the stoma but it has completely shattered my confidence. I spend more time dwelling on the stoma than on the cancer which I realise is silly but I dont feel like my self anymore. Got news today that all of the tumours have grown in the last 3 months so will start on a different course of chemo.
Anyone else with a stoma feeling the same way?
Dear Esmie
Thank you for your post on our online community.
I am sorry to read about the distress your stoma is causing you, I have no doubt that this is a difficult time for you. I do hope that you hear from someone who has had a similar experience to you. In the meantime, I have attached information about Ostomy Association Ireland, an Irish Charity who provide support to people with a stoma.
If you would like to speak with one of our cancer nurses at any time, please contact the Support Line on 1800 200 700, Monday – Friday, 9am – 5pm.
Kind regards,
Cancer Nurse