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I lost my darling Sean to pancreatic cancer on the 1st. February 2012 after only 9 months since diagnosis. I am utterly lost without him, he was my life. I have to thank the Hospice Homecare team who were absolutely wonderful. Sean particularly liked Janet who told him she would always be truthful to him, and she was. I don't know how I will go on, but I know I have to, for our children, whom we both adore. Also our grandchildren who will carry on the genes and character of this wonderful man. Rest in peace my darling, I will meet you again someday soon. Love always, Your partner & friend forever.XXXXXXXXXX

Hi just wondering if anyone has experience of pancreatic cancer that has secondaries on the liver? My mum has recently been diagnosed and we are at a loss as what to expect in the weeks and months to come. Have never posted anything before on a forum page so am a bit nervous! Would appreciate any advice or information, thanks. Carla.

Had 3rd surgery on Wednesday and morphine again caused the BP and heart rate to drop. Made me feel very, very groggy and I was so sick on the way home...had to pull into the side of the road (apologies for being graphic)!!!!!! I am going to tell them to put it in BOLD on my chart not to give me morphine again should I have further surgery. Just wondering if anyone else had a similar experience and what other form of pain relief did you use and was it effective? Energy levels are a bit down today but I forget I have had 3 anaesthetics in 3 months...my poor body has been through alot. Ah well, just have to be extra nice to myself so Hope everyone else is doing well. Micheline.

Ok - not foobs ....but real live happy beagle pups and I'm in love with them. I'm sorry I have not been following any of the forums or answering any posts as I'm so wrapped up in my new pups, Coco and Bonnie. Its like having kids again, cant take my eyes of them, not just to protect them but because they are so adorable. They have given me a new perspective on life and I'm not going around thinking the whole time about my breast cancer. I'm living now and enjoying life more. The conversations in the house is all about the pups and when we have visitors its all about the pups, not about my cancer which is great! Its another dimension on how our brains have something else to concentrate on and how happy I feel inside. Aside from being diagnosed with BC I also am not working which for me after 35 years working felt like I was missing something. Now I realize that so many other things make you happy and content, work was a means to an end really, other than the relationships you develop whilst working. My children are for the most part up and running, so this is my empty nest syndrome as some one put it to me and I'm loving every minute of it. Hugs to all and Mimiraffo I will give you a call soon, sorry I missed you recently. Ger

Today I got great news...after 3 attempts, they managed to get clear margins! I have to have radiotherapy for a few weeks but I am preserving my breast. It has been a roller coaster since April 4th...but life is so freaking good now! I have so much to be thankful for. Whilst my journey still continues...I hope all of you are doing well on yours. Bless each and everyone of you. I will keep looking in on you all. Micheline.

Three days and fours hours ago I was hit by a freight train. I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Age: 43, PSA:9.5, Gleeson:9. To cope with what lies ahead in the best way I know how I started a blog at http://www.tommolloy.com. Posts are displayed with the most recent at the top, so start at the bottom ("Day 1") to read them in sequence until I work out how to make it more intuitive. Content is candid and will not be to the taste of everyone. But it is my way of getting my head around this and I hope of some benefit to somebody. Keep fighting the good fight!

I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM ANYONE OUT THERE WHO LIKE ME IS NEARING THE END OF THEIR TREATMENT OF HERCEPTIN MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS glucosesweet2002@yahoo.com

Hi Everyone I am very new to this so apologies for lackof/too much information! I am 25 and BRCA1 positive. I have decided to have a double mastectomy and reconstruction surgery next month. I tested positive 4 years ago so plenty of time to think about it and it is the right time for me. I intend to get the back muscle with implant reconstruction. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or useful information that they think may be of use to me for both in hospital and recovery at home? Also, I am looking to have this done in the Mater Private - although not sure if my health insurance will cover it (or most of it!) I have Level 1 hospital with Aviva. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas of coverage and costs if not covered? Any help or information is truely appreciated. Thank you all

Anyone know how long you have to wait before getting reconstruction? What are the medical reasons for delaying this surgery? Am still on Herceptin till next Feb. Decision already made that I will have Diep flap but am hearing different things about how long I have to wait to get this done. Am interested in medical reasons, I know I'll have to face some sort of waiting list.

Mam has cholangiocarcinoma, cancer of the bile ducts in the liver with liver metastases also. She was diagnosed in March aged 66 years.She is now really feeling the effects of the tumour and unfortunately it is palliative. I never thought about my mother going through something like this or that I would have to watch her and try and support her. Watching and waiting is the worst, waiting for symptoms to appear indicating the tumour is increasing. Noone ever tells you what it is like to wait. I wish I could forget and miss her even though she is with us.